The conversation should center on current events, the exchange of general information, and flirting and jokes. Do not talk about your past relationships or the problems you have in your life. There will be time for that later. Remember, you need to impress on these early dates, so keep a lid on the taboo topics and just don't go there. Girls, remember that guys will pry for information. They do this so they can find out your weak spots, conquer you and then move on.

Don't answer every question he asks; side step the ones that are too personal, answer his question with a question, and keep it simple. When he asks what happened to your last relationship, just say "it didn't work out" or "we wanted different things" and leave it at that. Do not give detailed explanations; change the subject. Remember to smile, laugh, joke and tease. Early dating can be so much fun when you remember why you are there in the first place. It is to have fun

In particular, do not bring up or discuss topics that are serious like long-term love, how many kids you want, how you are dying to settle down, or how much you want to get married in a year. Do not talk about things like sexual preferences or how many booty calls you have in one week. Leave some things to the imagination. Girls, do not ask questions about his money or his salary or he will think you are just looking for a husband and not paying attention to him in particular.

Do not have sex on the first date. If you do not understand why this is a rule and not just a good idea, then google the topic and read the advice of the experts. Sex is okay if you are certain you do not want a future with this person and you really just want sex, just know that having sex too early greatly decreases your odds of a long-lasting relationship, and there are lots of reasons why. Again, don't try to argue with biology. This is just the way it is.